LOVE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES

 The snake bit the hen, and with the poison burning in her body, she sought refuge in her henhouse.

But the other hens preferred to expel her so that the poison would not spread.

The hen limped away, crying in pain. Not because of the bite, but because of the abandonment and disdain of her own family at the time when she needed them most.

And so she left... burning with fever, dragging one of her legs, vulnerable to the cold nights.

With each step, a tear fell.

The hens in the henhouse watched her go away, watching her disappear on the horizon. Some said to each other:

— Let her go... She will die far from us.

And when the hen finally vanished into the immensity of the horizon, they were all sure that she had died.

Some even looked at the sky, hoping to see vultures flying.

Time passed.

Much later, a hummingbird came to the henhouse and announced:

— Your sister is alive! She lives in a cave far away from here.

She recovered, but lost a leg from the snake bite.

She has trouble finding food and needs your help.

There was silence. Then the excuses began:

— I can't go, I'm laying eggs...

— I can't go, I'm looking for corn...

— I can't go, I have to take care of my chicks...

So, one by one, they all rejected the request. The hummingbird returned to the cave without help.

Time passed again.

Much later, the hummingbird returned, but this time with painful news:

— Your sister has passed away... She died alone in the cave... There is no one to bury her or mourn her.

At that moment, a weight fell on everyone. A deep lament filled the henhouse.

Those who were laying eggs stopped.

Those who were looking for corn left the seeds behind.

Those who were caring for chicks forgot about them for a moment.

Regret hurt more than any poison. Why didn't we go before?, they asked themselves.

And without measuring the distance or the effort, they all set off for the cave, crying and lamenting. Now they had a reason to see her, but it was too late.

When they got to the cave, they didn't find the hen... They only found a letter that said:

"In life, many times people don't cross the street to help you when you're alive, but they cross the world to bury you when you die.

And most of the tears at funerals are not from pain, but from remorse and regret."

Shared Nature and Animals

James 4:13-15

"Now listen, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.' "Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes." "Instead, you ought to say, 'If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that."

Psalm 90:12

"Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom."

Proverbs 27:1

"Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring."

1 Corinthians 15:31

"I face death every day—yes, just as surely as I boast about you in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Psalm 39:4-5

"Show me, Lord, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting my life is. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years is as nothing before you. Everyone is but a breath, even those who seem secure."

James 4:14 says:

"Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away."

WE'RE NOT PROMISED TOMORROW, LOVE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE WHILE IT MATTERS.

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THE UNSEEN ENEMY

 

 

THE UNSEEN ENEMY

In the silent corridors of our minds, a subtle adversary often lurks, dictating the terms of our happiness and self-worth. This unseen enemy is not a tangible force but a deeply ingrained pattern of thought—what psychologist Albert Ellis coined as "musturbation."

Musturbation refers to the irrational and rigid belief that certain things “must” happen for us to feel validated, happy, or successful. These self-imposed imperatives—“I must succeed,” “People must treat me fairly,” or “Life must go as I plan”—create an internal pressure that can lead to chronic stress, frustration, and even mental health struggles.

 Musturbation

The roots of musturbation often trace back to early experiences and societal conditioning. From a young age, we are exposed to expectations from peers, and the media. These influences shape our worldview, embedding "musts" and "should" into our psyche. Over time, these beliefs become automatic, often operating below the level of conscious awareness.

The Negative Effects of Musturbation

Living under the tyranny of "musts" can have profound negative effects on various aspects of life. These include:

1.      Mental Health Issues: The unrelenting pressure to meet unrealistic expectations often results in anxiety, depression, and chronic stress. The gap between "must" and reality can create feelings of failure and inadequacy.

2.      Emotional Turmoil: Musturbation amplifies negative emotions such as guilt, anger, and frustration. For instance, believing "I must always be in control" can lead to emotional breakdowns when faced with unpredictability.

3.      Strained Relationships: Interpersonal conflicts can arise when individuals impose their "musts" onto others. Expecting people to behave in specific ways often leads to disappointment and resentment.

4.      Physical Health Decline: The chronic stress caused by rigid beliefs can manifest in physical symptoms like headaches, fatigue, and even long-term health conditions such as hypertension.

5.      Spiritual Disconnect: On a spiritual level, musturbation disrupts our ability to trust the natural flow of life. The obsession with control and perfectionism detracts from inner peace and hinders our connection to higher truths or divine guidance.

Challenging the "Musts"

To combat musturbation, it is essential to identify and question these rigid beliefs. Cognitive-behavioral techniques can be particularly helpful in this regard:

1.      Recognize Your "Musts": Begin by paying attention to the language you use in self-talk. Words like "must," "should," or "have to" often signal underlying rigid beliefs.

2.      Reframe Your Thoughts: Replace "must" with more flexible alternatives. For example, instead of saying, "I must be liked by everyone," try, "I’d prefer to be liked, but I can handle it if I’m not."

3.      Practice Self-Compassion: Accepting imperfection and embracing your humanity can help you let go of unrealistic expectations. Treat yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend.

4.      Focus on What You Control: Life is unpredictable, and many outcomes are beyond our influence. Concentrate on your efforts rather than obsessing over results.

5.      Cultivate Spiritual Awareness: Embrace practices such as mindfulness, prayer, or meditation to reconnect with a sense of higher purpose. Letting go of "musts" opens the door to experiencing grace and recognizing that our worth is not conditional.

Ways to Win Against the Unseen Enemy

 

• Engage in practices like prayer, meditation, or spending time in nature to deepen your connection to a higher power Overcoming musturbation requires a combination of self-awareness, intentional practice, and a shift in perspective. Here are some effective strategies:
1. Identify and Challenge Your Beliefs:
• Start by noticing the "musts" in your daily thoughts and self-talk. Journaling can help you track these patterns.
• Ask yourself, "Is this belief realistic or helpful?" Replace rigid statements like "I must always succeed" with flexible alternatives such as "I will do my best and learn from the outcome."
2. Cultivate Self-Compassion:
• Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when things don’t go as planned. Recognize that mistakes and setbacks are part of being human.
• Practice affirmations that reinforce your intrinsic worth, independent of external achievements.
3. Focus on What You Can Control:
• Redirect your energy toward actions within your sphere of influence. Accept that many aspects of life are beyond your control and let go of the need to micromanage outcomes.
4. Adopt Mindfulness Practices:
• Engage in mindfulness meditation, which helps you stay present and detach from judgmental thoughts. This can reduce the grip of rigid "musts" and foster a sense of calm.
5. Seek Support:
• Share your struggles with a trusted friend, counselor, or support group. Others can provide perspective and encouragement as you work to overcome rigid thinking patterns.
6. Reconnect with Your Spiritual Essence:
• Err or universal truth. Surrendering the need for control allows for greater trust in life’s unfolding.

2. Celebrate Small Wins:
• Acknowledge and appreciate progress, no matter how small. Recognizing your efforts builds momentum and reinforces positive change.

 

The Path to Freedom

By confronting the unseen enemy of musturbation, we can liberate ourselves from the chains of unrealistic expectations. The journey requires patience and practice, but the rewards are immense: a life lived with greater peace, resilience, and authenticity.

Spiritually, this liberation allows us to align with the flow of life and trust in a higher power. Letting go of rigid "musts" invites us to embrace uncertainty and find meaning in the present. This spiritual surrender doesn’t imply passivity but rather an active engagement with life’s challenges, grounded in faith and self-awareness.

In a world that constantly bombards us with messages about who we should be and what we must achieve, it is an act of courage to question these narratives. By doing so, we reclaim our power to define success, happiness, and fulfillment on our terms. After all, true freedom lies not in meeting every "must" but in embracing the messy, beautiful reality of life as it is—connected to both our humanity and the divine.

 

Article by FRESH MEDIA

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